I wanted to post what I shared with my friends after this terrible news. It was written more for my friends who were casual (if that) Buffett fans but still knew how much it all meant to me and sent their condolences. Being Parrotheads most of you are already aware of the Jimmy facts that I shared but I wanted them to know how much more he was than just a trop rocker.
What Jimmy Meant to Me:
I pen these thoughts off the Coast of Carolina from my home in the lowcountry. Jimmy Buffett was a big part of my life for portions of 4 decades. I was fortunate (or crazy) enough to be able to attend 108 shows. I was 20 years old the first time I went, back when Merriweather Post Pavilion was THE place to be. Even then I saw how much he loved performing. He smiled constantly. He loved us and we loved him right back. That never changed through all those shows. I've seen hundreds of "big name" acts over the years working as a stagehand. At some point almost everybody goes through the motions. Jimmy never did. He just loved to perform. I’ve always thought that was part of the magic; seeing how much fun he was having let us all have that much more fun.
So many people reached out to me over this very hard weekend. Many of them non-Parrotheads who knew I'd be hurting. I appreciated that so much. See, it was never about the drinking like so many people casually dismiss Buffett. He was the hardest working "beachbum" you've ever seen. Did you know he was one of only a handful of authors who had #1 bestsellers on the New York Times Bestseller List? In both fiction AND non-fiction? That short list includes Hemingway, Steinbeck and Wallace. He never dreamed he'd still be making music all these years so he started marketing and branding a lifestyle. That was just a bonus because fortunately for us he continued to make music and people continued to listen. If you look and listen to the body of work you see songs and lyrics from a man who was deeply contemplative, creative, well read, mischievous and probably most importantly, joyful. For many years I've been able to relate lyrics from his huge catalog of songs to some event or point in my life. He knew how to cut through the *****. When Bob Dylan says you're one of his favorite songwriters you must be doing something right. The tributes that poured in over the weekend from people across all genres of entertainment were amazing. Jimmy knew everybody and everybody wanted to know him! He recorded with Sinatra back in the day and most recently with Paul McCartney and everybody in-between.
I've made friends and met people from all over the world because of Jimmy Buffett. Many of whom I heard from the last few days. We are all part of that family and we're hurting. Texting with my dear friends in Maine and my best friend in Maryland who are mourning like me. Friends I made many years ago in Pittsburgh at a show now have a retirement home on Hilton Head and we all attended a Buffett tribute show Sunday evening. There were a lot of tears in the crowd and on stage that night.
I’ve also found the love of my life with whom I was able to share my appreciation of Jimmy. These lyrics speak to that:
“From the bottom of my heart
Off the coast of Carolina
After one or two false starts
I believe we found our stride”
About 15 years ago Jimmy recorded a little song called
Here We Are. It was an ode to the Parrotheads. Not an especially deep song but it captured perfectly what it was all about on show day. On show days if you knew somebody was going and you weren't you'd wish them a "Happy Buffett Day". We worked hard and wanted a few hours to let loose and celebrate life with friends old and new. He called it a "family reunion costume barbeque". I think that's about right. He wrote "in spite of all the work we do it's the child in us we really value".
I always hoped that I'd have a daughter so I could dance to
Little Miss Magic with her at her wedding but that didn't work out. I do love the lyrics though and you fathers reading this could do worse than choosing that song when that special day arrives.
"I catch a little more dialogue comin' my way,
I see those big brown eyes just start to lookin' astray,
Your mother's still the only other woman for me,
Little Miss Magic, what you gonna be?"
It was the anticipation each year of tour dates being announced; seeing which shows you might be able to make and who could go with you or meet up with you. Reminiscing about all the fun we had at previous shows when we gathered in the dreary winter months and what we were looking forward to when the King of Summer came to town once again. In the old days it was the pain of waiting in line at the record store to buy tickets when they went on sale. Later it was the damn bots and scalpers. Yet we suffered through it all for a chance to see "the man". It was the preparation of how you might outdo what you did last year at your tailgate. What decorations do we need? Who was going to make jello shots and what flavors? Can we make a realistic looking fin for the top of the car? Is there a way we can figure out how to make a portable bar that looks like it's from the islands? What can we do in the parking lot that will get us shown on the big screen during Changes in Latitudes, Changes in Attitudes? (I made it in 2010!) If you never put your fins up and swayed in unison with 20,000 other people on the lawn you missed one of life's great experiences.
The memories and friends are almost immeasurable. The roadtrips with my best friend to see Jimmy will be some of my fondest memories until the day I “just sail away”. I will remember the goodness and joy that emanated from all of the shows, the music, the other events that we all attended. The community was real and the love and goodness palatable. I'm so thankful that I was a part of it for so long. Being able to be there to see and hear Jimmy at his final show in Key West was a joy and a blessing that I’ll always treasure. Enjoy that
One Particular Harbour Jimmy. It truly was a
Lovely Cruise.
I could go on and on but I'll stop. I do encourage you to put on some of the albums maybe you've never heard of and just listen. There's a lot of good stuff there. I'll finish by leaving a few lyrics that seem appropriate at this time and finally a link to a new song that is coming out on Jimmy's last album later this fall. Radio Margaritaville got permission to play it before its release so it's just a YouTube recording but it's definitely a final message from Jimmy to everyone telling us everything will be ok. It's called
Bubbles Up.
I Wave Bye Bye
I wave bye bye, I pray Godspeed
I wish you lovely weather, more luck than you need
You'll only sail in circles, so there's no need to cry
Oh, I see you again one day and then I'll wave bye bye
The Captain and the Kid
We both were growin' older then
Wiser with our years
That's when I came to understand
The course his heart still steered
He died about a month ago
While winter filled the air
And though I cried, I was so proud
To love a man so rare
He's somewhere on the ocean now
A place he outta be
With one hand on the starboard rail
He's wavin' back at me
Bubbles Up:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=do4xSp3TEhg